Foreword  
 
 
This book is a celebration of the delights of home cooking. I believe it is in the kitchen that one feels most strongly the pulse of the home.
 
There are very few things that match the picture of a family eating together. It is heartwarming to imagine the chatter, the exchange of random impressions and the way issues of toil and study get summed up amicably during a shared meal. I encourage my young friends – as I did my children before they left home – to establish the tradition of the proper meal early in their lives. It is a discipline quite difficult to dislodge and will serve them well into the future.
 
Congenial meals with family and friends are among the best rewards of hard work. I treasure memories of dinners my children and I have cooked jointly in their kitchens as they gamely struggled to find their respective places in the world. The practice of eating together is one of the habits we continue to share as my role in their ever evolving lives contracts. We catch up with one another, chat and laugh as we peel and pare and dice. As a mother, I can’t ask for more.
 
The adage instilled in me as a child remains my motto: Waste not, want not. I buy seasonal ingredients and use substitutes instead of paying exorbitant prices for items that may not have travelled well. Leftovers are not just re-heated. They get re-invented, as a side dish or sandwich filling. The larder is never filled to capacity and I constantly review expiry dates on bottled ingredients I purchase. I see to it that I look after and use what I buy.
 
Recipes leaving clear impressions of harmonious ingredients should be lauded. I recall a respected food connoisseur saying: I like foie gras and filet mignon, but not when they are served on top of each other! Excess detracts from the nourishing and engaging power of food. Expensive may not necessarily mean quality. A wellsmoked red snapper, adorned with nothing more than a lemon wedge, is by far better than a sloppily prepared T-bone steak that comes with all the trimmings. Better an unpretentious meal offered with affection than an elaborate spread served with misgivings.
 

So the cooking odyssey continues. The basic principles remain – simple is best, fresh is better. Meals must be eaten at a table and everyone who gathers around it must agree to postpone unhappy talk and acrimonious exchanges. I observe no rules about seating and how a table is turned – suffice the food is enjoyed by everybody. I feel that if all are in a positive mood, grace will follow.

CAROL CHENG
Penang, 2009